In a world full of noise, distraction, and constant change, many of us stop and ask:
“What am I really doing with my life?”
This question isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a spark of clarity. And it’s one that Paul and Ruth, two mentors with decades of experience in teaching, leadership, and service, help young people explore every day.
Their stories offer powerful examples of what it looks like to live a purpose-driven life—and how you can start yours.
From Military Bases to Mission Fields: Paul’s Journey
Paul’s life was shaped by discipline and movement. Growing up in a military family meant he lived across the world, constantly adapting, observing, and learning. Later, he served a full-time mission in Germany, followed by a PhD from Brigham Young University. His career was rooted in teaching and leading within the Church Education System, where he influenced countless students to grow spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually.
But more than his credentials, what stands out about Paul is his commitment to purpose. Every lesson he teaches is anchored in long-term thinking.
“A personal compass says it all.” It’s this inner compass that helped him stay steady throughout life’s uncertainties—and it’s what he now instills in others.
Ruth’s Roots: A Farm Girl with a Nurturing Spirit
Ruth’s story begins on a potato farm in Idaho. The lessons of hard work, sacrifice, and family unity were present in every early morning and every harvest. She later served a mission in California, where her love for nurturing others found full expression. Her lifelong dedication to Church service is a testament to the impact of quiet, consistent leadership.
Ruth’s strength lies in her empathy. Her actions are gentle but firm, and her belief in others helps them believe in themselves.
Her influence is profound: Live your purpose. Nurture others. Build something bigger than yourself.
Defining a Purpose-Driven Life
What is a purpose-driven life, anyway?
It’s not a one-size-fits-all idea. In fact, your purpose can shift over time, and that’s perfectly normal. What mattered most to you five years ago may not be what matters today. That change doesn’t mean you’re lost—it means you’re growing.
Living with purpose isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about asking the right questions:
- What am I trying to achieve?
- Where do I want to be in five years?
- Who am I becoming through my actions today?
These questions invite clarity, vision, and—most importantly—intentional action.
The Role of Action in Purpose: Having a Purpose-Driven Life
Purpose doesn’t float in the air like a motivational quote. It shows up in the daily actions we take.
As Paul and Ruth teach, “The actions of a leader speak volumes about themselves. Trust must be present in everything—100%. But competence is a critical foundation for trust.”
This principle applies to every area of life—not just professional work. We strive to develop leaders in family, home, and community as much as in careers and academics. Because what’s the point of success if it’s not shared with the people around you?
Living a purpose-driven life is about aligning your daily choices with your long-term values. It’s a matter of consistency, character, and courage.
Leadership Is a Matter of Integrity
Paul and Ruth teach by example. Their influence comes not from commanding attention but from earning trust—every day, in small and significant ways.
That’s why we encourage our students to live intentionally. To keep their promises. To rise after setbacks. And to remember that leadership isn’t a title—it’s a way of living.
When you live with purpose, your presence becomes a lighthouse for others.
Ask Yourself: “What Is My Purpose Right Now?”
It’s easy to get caught up in comparison, distraction, or perfectionism. But the first step in building a purpose-driven life is giving yourself space to reflect.
Maybe you’re wondering:
“Do I have a purpose-driven life?”
Or more honestly:
“How do I even start?”
You begin by setting aside time to have an honest conversation with yourself. You don’t need all the answers. Just start asking the right questions, and be willing to listen to the answers that come from within—and from above.
Final Words of Encouragement from Paul and Ruth
When asked what their final message is to students, Paul and Ruth didn’t hesitate:
“Work hard. Fulfill your commitments to yourself, others, and God. Stay close to Heavenly Father. Embrace your experience—participate fully, accept challenges, and be open to the Spirit. We love you.”
These are not empty words. They’re a challenge and a blessing—a reminder that living a purpose-driven life is the most fulfilling adventure of all.
Join the Journey Toward a Purpose-Driven Life
Are you ready to stop drifting and start living with intention?
If so, you’re not alone. Each semester, we welcome students from around the world who are seeking more than just education. They come for growth, clarity, leadership, faith, and transformation. And they leave with lifelong tools to live a purpose-driven life.
You’re invited.
Bring your questions. Bring your desire to grow. Come prepared to lead a life of purpose.
Because the world doesn’t need more noise.
It needs more people like you—anchored in purpose, driven by values, and ready to lead.
Join us. The journey starts now.
Written by Fernando L. Ferreira Jr.
Photos by Julieta Ramirez
Supervision by Kamila Uberto Fullmer
